like most people, I have a list of things i look for in a man. as far as looks go they only would get you so far, having a clean shirt, smelling fresh (Body and breath ) clean short nails, and a good fashion sense ought to at the least get me to give you the time of day to say hi.
However, many seem to think that looks are all there is to attraction. Looks may get you in the door, but you remain standing till further notice. a great personality would be nice, someone funny, interesting and well spoken. That again should but you a little more time with me.
Once you have a seat its time for me to dissect. I want to know what you are really made of, what you stand for, what you would or would not do and the likes. That right there is what makes the difference between a keeper and a return to sender.
Many men look great, dress, well, speak even better and smell like angels dust which is great, but if there is one thing I cannot stand is a man with no moral fiber. You know the one who says one thing and does the other, the one who wraps his arms around his girl while winking at you behind her back? The one who makes the company pay off his drinking bills and calls it a company dinner.
There is nothing more unattractive to me than lack of integrity. I have friends out there, who have men like these, and I ache to tell them, but chances are they already know and just make excuses for his behavior.
Are we so desperate to be in a relationship that any man will do? If that is the case be ready for a man who will also do anything. Ladies, being single is not a curse, playing hard to get is not a game unless you are playing inky pinky pon ki.
I don’t know about you, but I would rather wait for the best than settle for the rest…..you feel me?
Shalom
T
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I feel you! I would rather wait any day!!
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